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10/11/2009
I got to speak to a lovely group of ladies today about how the Lord has faithfully touched my life. It was difficult to narrow down to a manageable amount to share, and of course I can't remember much now, but I do remember laughter, and hugs and tears. At the end I shared a life moment that is happening right now: last Friday Lance got some work news that is a bit distressing, and if I were prone to lean on my own understanding I would be freaking out or throwing up or both. Thank God for Him. I really can't say much more but with him just having a BIG birthday, he really didn't need this kind of news too. If you could remember Lance in prayer that would be greatly appreciated.
I am drawn back to Habbakuk 3 17/18 there's nothing good happening and there is no food, yet I will trust in the Lord!
how do people do life without Him?
Prayers are greatly appreciated! 9/24/2009
I remember the day we met. It was 1976. We had study hall together in the library. Where I was loud, probably obnoxious and had an assortment of unique friends, he was quiet, smart and friend of a few lucky people. I'm glad he picked me. It was his 17th birthday and I was cutting construction paper shapes for my early childhood education class. I secretly cut a heart and wrote "Happy Birthday Lance" on it and then slid it across the table. He was so happy. His fair complexion reddened almost the same color as his silky long hair and his green eyes seemed to twinkle from behind his glasses. There was a heart connection.
I'm sure there was a teen hormonal connection too, but from then on we were close. Even when my friends begged me to stop being his friend because he was a nerd, a qeek, too quiet, I refused. he made me happy, I felt safe with him, and pretty too. Lance really did seem to 'complete' me, although I wouldn't have said it that way in 1976 of course. Jerry McGuire didn't come out until much later.
We dated a couple of times and then my parents moved our family back to Canada. For some time after Lance joked about me leaving the country instead of having another date with him, and I hoped he was truly joking. He had my heart and soul and I really didn't want them to get dusty or broken.
We had a few long distance dates and too many teen drama moments at the Grayhound bus station when I had to go home from a visit.
After he graduated he went directly into the USMC. I graduated half a year early and asked my folks if I could go to San Diego for his graduated. I remember so well my father's sarcastic refusal. Lance and I knew we were going to get married sooner or later so we made it sooner. I remember saying to my father something like, "Fine. We'll get married then." What I don't recall is being adamant about going and my folks feeling like if they didn't say yes, I would run away. We got married February 25th, 1978 9 o'clock at night at the Candlelight Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas.
Fast forward to today. Right now he's sleeping. I'm going to try to post this on my front page so he can see it in the am. I hope he can look back on these past 50 years with no regrets. He is an amazing man. Never once have I been embarassed, ashamed or worried about his commitment to me and our family. He is strong in the Lord and leads us with integrity and wisdom that has always awed me.
He is the hero of my life. No matter what this family has needed he has provided. Our children are blessings to us and thier children are Grand-blessings !!!
We've done much in our 31.5 years of marriage. We've grown of course, but not apart, only closer. He truly is my soulmate and I can't imagine my life without him.
He may not be where he wants to be right now, but not because he hasn't taken opporunity, applied prayer, leaned on God, followed Jesus. No one works harder, no one I know loves deeper, and I am so very special because he chose me.
Happy Birthday Baby. You only get better as the years go by. I love you.   9/15/2009
The Woodhouse family has been through the wringer and back. Wow. With difficult pregnancy's and babies getting sick or hurt, and a housing situation that verges on unbelieveable, the family knows no off bounds circumstances. And yet, faith in God remains strong.
Non fiction books don't usually grab my attention, unless it's something I'm intentionally studying I'd rather get lost in the fiction worlds. Kim's easy and friendly style makes this book read less like a fact based tale and more like a personal story. One of the rules of fiction is to keep the hero and heroine in constant conflict. Sadly Kim's family had no problem sticking to this rule!
I appreciate that Kim acknowledges her doubts and fears lived side by side her strong Faith and sound mind. No matter what the world threw at her - baby can't breathe, baby ate glass, baby needs brain surgery, Kim's fear was quickly replaced by the fact that she knows her God is bigger than anything. Yet, she also acknowledges from time to time faith was the last one to arrive.
If you love the chicken soup sort of stories, are a fan of the Extreme Home Makeover shows, enjoy reading medical mystery sort of things are intrigued by the lives of those who follow faithfully even in the dark - this book is for you!
I am so blessed to have read it. And thanks to Kim for the reminders of how God is in the big stuff but also in the small.
5/31/2009
I'm now 49th. Still over weight and under tall. Not the most gorgeous woman on the planet or even in my town and I still struggle with disciplines in almost every area of my life. It's like the past twenty years have garnered nothing in my personal development. Ugh.
So, God, in His infinite wisdom sent me two books to review. Actually I have MANY books to review but two NON-FICTION books found me and I don't usually review non-fiction. What are these two books? Do You Think I'm Beautiful - By Angela Thomas and Get in Shape God's Way.
Now my study time includes the Word and these books to find or develop a new way of looking/percieving/understanding/changing and disciplining myself. God's way.
Maybe I'll hit 50 with all the goals I had not achieved in my previous years?
I'll be blogging about my venture here.
You should check back often, hold be accountable and leave me feedback.
xo me 3/15/2009
Lance and I celebrated our 31 year anniversary with a trip to the beach. This is how we usually celebrate...with a beach trip. However, the usual beaches are hot and very sunny and the water is 78 - 82 degrees...we spend all our time in our swim suits and either on or under the water. However, because the economy is so bad we opted for a closer to home trip.
We hit the west coast shore of Washington State where the water is no doubt freezing we didn't venture in because the trek through the snow on the sand made us tired. But we did manage to ride our bikes right along the place here the waves lick the shore. Sure we missed the sun, heat, sun, and did i say heat? Yet.we were together and really that is our most favorite place to be.
It wasn't long after we returned home that our family's latest prince arrived: Isaiah Lance Baldwin pushed into this world after only 5 hours of labor at a really neat midwife place. He was 8lbs 7oz and 22 inches long. Coralie and Josh were back home by 9am.
It was crazy fast.
Abbie and Syl colored on a couple of signs for the house, we then decorated both the front and back doors. Later that SAME day, their friend Brooke came to shoot pictures. She is amazing, but Josh and Coralie are even more so. They look so proud/awake/happy rested in the photos. I think they only had 45 minutes of rest and yet they look stunning.
Me?
I was rested/napped/snoozed for the following three days.
Lance would ask what was wrong? Why so tired?
"Coralie just had a baby....I'm exhausted!"
I practiced my knitting on little Isaiah..made him a blanket and a hat and booties. They turned out really well and I think will be my shower presents from now on.
Syl and Abbie have taken to being Big Sisters. Well, Abbie has reluctantly taken to it. Josh says when people ask if she's the big sister, her reply is, "No, I'm Abigail."
As our family continues to expand so does my awe to our Lord. He has done for us far beyond I ever dreamed and/or imagine. After five miscarriages I often felt not complete. With only two kids but wanting four, I always felt undone. But just as quickly I am reminded some folks are never given that blessing of children at all AND with eight grand-babies wearing me out, how would handle any more children?
God is smart. He knew exactly what He was doing when he blessed us with Josh and Jen. I am so glad He is God and I am not. Could you imagine the mess if it were otherwise ???
1/29/2009
So, it's the end of January. How many of you made resolutions? Good...how many of you have already broken them? Good!!
I don't make resolutions.
Why set myself up for failure?
But, from time to time I do attempt life changes. Since I am sometimes overwhelmed with the chaotic clutter in the house, (which leaves me either knitting, or writing, or reading, anything but housekeeping) I've started listing. This has really motivated me.
So, what used to happen was: housework builds up...I get overwhelmed. Eventually we invite someone over. Of course we have to clean up. That's when the stress starts. And, after hours of tossing, dusting, cleaning toilets and mopping floors, I was pretty wiped out by the time company arrived.
My daughter suggested I break it down to one big chore a day. (I know, I'm almost fifty and the idea had not dawned on me)...so I do bathrooms one day, kitchen every day, floors one day, bath rooms one day, and bedroom one day. Laundry gets dispensed between the days. I have to say while I still don't delight in house work, it no longer paralyzes me.
You should try. This is how I do it : I leave the list on the kitchen counter and everything I want to accomplish that day goes on the list. Wednesday's list is a little longer because I'm doing extra stuff to get ready for our fun group meeting. But I put down fitness, writing, reading bible study, knitting, and all the chores..and shopping etc. Maybe I am simple minded, but I get a great dose of satisfaction crossing off the items and looking at the completed list at the end of the day. :)
What did you do this year? Make a resolve? What was it? Did you keep at it???
"And, my God will meet your needs according to is glorious riches in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19 10/12/2008
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New writer's inspirational spots Brandt Dodson's Mississippi The Mighty M
and his website is Brandt Dodson's siteT Brandt is fast becoming one of my favorite author's. If you're interested in sort of dark police procedurals shadowed in hope, you need to get his books. The other new author is Lisa Wingate. Lisa finds inspiration here Three of Lisa's Inspirations! and her site is here. I discovered Lisa's writing at a resort in Mexico...her books are made to make us feel good.
Click on the tab above titled ‘Writer's Inspirational Spots’ to see the other generous author's submissions.
Descriptions state whose spot the photo depicts. Hope it's not confusing.)
Stephen and Janet Bly find inspiration out doors where they can walk and talk and think and just be. Stephen and Janet Bly
Kristen Billerbeck has a huge following of her lit books. She finds inspiration at the beach, (I believe this one is the setting of her next book) and also from her home office, where she can see the city and remember she is home. Check her cute site out at Kristen Billerbeck's site.
Then suspense writer Brandilyn Collins sends two pictures. A day and gorgeous night shot of the view from her deck and home office in Idaho. She writes some pretty scary stuff…I’m guessing she renews by reflecting on God’s handiwork right outside her door. Her site is Brandilyn Collins site.
Next is Jane Porter. She writes that the Canadian Rockies are among her favorite places and finds great inspiration in Alberta, Canada at Banff. (Jane writes a variety of genres but the one I read and re-read is her modern lit...it's excellent. Flirting with Forty, Odd Mom Out and Perfect Mom are among my favorite reads.) You can visit her here: www.JanePorter.com
Deb Raney is the owner of the second picture - she currently writes the Claybourn series published by Simon Schuster. Excellent family drama in these stories. She finds inspiration in her own yard, on her patio and regrets it will soon be too chilly to work here. Check out Deb Raney's website she is a spectacular sister in the Lord and I am so blessed to know her.
Jim Rubart has an unusual spot..he's letting us in on a secret. Check out the four pictures leading the way to his secret room!
Linda Windsor email accompanying her photograph, was very moving. As you might know she lost her dear Jim a few years ago. Linda is very upfront and open with her feelings and thoughts..which is why I love her so much! Here is a clip which I have permission to share with you.
I recall watching a seagull tackle a meal of starfish. Jim had brought me here because I was down. The seagull was undaunted by the size of a meal he couldn't swallow. Instead he pecked and pecked at its center until the starfish was divided into five sections, each of which he then swallowed. It reminded me that I can't tackle life all at once, but if I persevere like the gull, I can hack it into pieces that I can handle. It takes will and faith to keep trying. What a lesson Jim and I shared that day.
Linda can be found at her site Linda Windsor
It's been fun getting to know the writer's better. I appreciate those who answered my call for pictures! You all rock.
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8/27/2008I'm not talking about your normal cliche. I'm talking about Christian cliche's like "let go and let God," or "the safest place to be is in the middle of God's will." I love those cliches. But, to be fair, they're really annoying when tossed out as an answer to some life dilemma. Like, say, you're in the middle of a personal tragedy. Could be death of a loved one, a divorce, or say, you broke your leg, or you just found out you are pregnant, or have cancer. And, you don't handle the bad news so well.
You cry, you shut down but you share it with your (fill in blank________) and they say, "Well, you gotta let go and let God. He'll take care of you." Or, better, "The safest place to be is in the middle of His will." My first thought would be, "It's God's will for me to have cancer, get a divorce, suffer this emotional angst?" Yeah, I know.
So, I'm attempting to rid the cliche's out of my writing and out of my speech. It's not easy. Apparently I am a cliche carrier. I toss them out with some regularity. It is me, I?, who say to the newly devastated - "Sister, let go and let God." That is so not helpful. So, my current quest, to clean up the writing, the speech, and the heart and mind of trite cliches.
It's going to be difficult, because I've become lazy. Even in my prayers. Cliches. No real thought or conviction. Father, forgive me. (And I mean that sincerely).
This is my challenge to you, too. Make a clean sweep of cliches. I think we'll be better for it, but more important we'll be able to help others through life's obstacles and be closer to Him.
Check in later and I'll tell you how I'm doing. 7/28/2008My kids love to watch the Food network. Even my oldest grandson is intrigued by the various hosts and the magic they do with food. I have a love/hate relationship with food, so I only watch when necessary. My favorite shows are on the National Geographic channel and the Travel Channel. Today, they featured Reindeer Herders.
I watched these nomadic people herd their livelihood through snow as deep as some of the children's waists. A storm killed five people and many animals. But, with the urgency of getting the remaining animals through, the people kept going with no time to grieve. I can't even imagine it.
I am reminded how wonderfully I am blessed. When the worst complaint I have is that my feet are cold and I can rectify that immediately with clean socks, then I am spoiled blessed!
I take advantage of the far away places the television can bring into my home. But, at the same time I am convicted of my sometimes wasteful, lazy lifestyle.
I'm praying the Lord bring some ministry to mind so I can be of some use somehow, somewhere to those who live a more difficult life than I.
I was going to say a 'less blessed' life than mine, but I don't think that is necessarily so. Those reindeer herders probably do feel blessed with love of family, and earning a living. It is only my comparison that seems to make it more difficult.
6/30/2008
The slogan of your life
In an effort to motivate myself in my never ending battle with co-dependent saddle bags and moon crater cellulite, I changed my hair, cut it short. It was almost as if I had bought a really great pair of shoes: I felt kind of sexy and pretty and thin – all that from a hair cut – does it tell you anything at all about my psyche? I asked my sweet husband of 30 years, if my new hair cut made my face look thinner. No. No, in fact the new hair cut makes the entire me look bigger. What? After a few moments of uncomfortable silence, I explained to him, that maybe, in the future, if I ask if my face looks thinner he should just keep remarks focused to my face. I really wasn’t mad, just kind of shocked. And, this brings me to the subject of this column. Life Slogans.
My husband’s life slogan could be: Honesty – No matter the Cost. (Or, Open Mouth Insert Both Feet). Actually, if it were up to me his life slogan would be, Lance Wise Beyond Wonder, because he truly is the wisest man I know.( He just doesn’t engage the wisdom all the time.)
My life slogan could be – Spoiler Nana, Right End of the Couch Warmer, or if I were referring to my hobby, SCUBA – Super Bouyant. But, I want it to reflect a bigger portion of my life. A slogan that reflects what is important in my life. Like God, Jesus, Family, love.
Slogans are a vital part of advertising. See if you can match the following slogans with the company.
Always low prices. Always. K-Mart
: We’re With You General Electric
The Stuff of Life Circuit City
Good Life. Great Price. Microsoft
Your potential. Our Passion. Staples
If you are like most, the slogans don’t bring recollection of anything, because they are brand new. But, eventually, the hope is the public will identify with the brand when they hear the jingle or the slogan.
Some slogans are just plain cumbersome – our local news station’s newest attempt is – “Your five day forecast. Plus five more days!” It just seems as if we’re trying too hard to find a fancy way of saying extended forecast.
In the writing world, authors brand themselves. Unlike days of long ago, when branding meant tossing a tied cow to the ground and searing his flesh with a red hot iron, this branding is simply a tag-line to the author’s name that identifies the type genre and style of the author. Here are some samples of author brands or tag-lines:
Nikki Arana – Writing With Fire
Liz Curtis Higgs - Encourager
Dr. Harry Kraus- Cutting Edge Fiction
Brandilynn Collins – Don’t Forget to Breathe
DiAnn Mills – Writing on the Edge
Robin Lee Hatcher – From Her Heart to Yours
You know what to expect when you read their books by the words they’ve chosen to represent them.
We’ve talked about commercial slogans, author slogans, now let’s talk about missionary slogans.
Would you be able to claim any of these as your own?
"God's work done in God's way will never lack God's supply" -- Hudson Taylor
"God isn't looking for people of great faith, but for individuals ready to follow Him" -- Hudson Taylor
"The Great Commission is not an option to be considered; it is a command to be obeyed" -- Hudson Taylor
"Expect great things from God; attempt great things for God" -- William Carey, who is called the father of modern missions
"The Bible is not the basis of missions; missions is the basis of the Bible" -- Ralph Winter, U.S. Center for World Mission
"Some wish to live within the sound of a chapel bell; I wish to run a rescue mission within a yard of hell." -- C.T. Studd
"This generation of Christians is responsible for this generation of souls on the earth!" -- Keith Green
"If God calls you to be a missionary, don't stoop to be a king" -- Jordan Groom
"No reserves. No retreats. No regrets" -- William Borden
"God uses men who are weak and feeble enough to lean on him." -- Hudson Taylor, missionary to China
"Believers who have the gospel keep mumbling it over and over to themselves. Meanwhile, millions who have never heard it once fall into the flames of eternal hell without ever hearing the salvation story." -- K.P. Yohannan, founder of Gospel for Asia Bible Societ
Ouch, don’t know about you but not many of those reflect my life.
So, what’s your life slogan going to be? Will it be something people can immediately identify with you? Could it go on your tombstone? What do you want people to remember about you? What impact do you want to make on your family, friends, strangers, the world?
Do you have a personal mission statement? If not make one. This is a life goal. Something you want to work towards every single day.
What’s your life verse? Don’t have one? Get one. Some men who might chose that John 3:33,– Jesus Wept as their life verse, simply to remind them it’s okay to melt your macho wall with some waterworks every now and then.
Now it’s time to write your slogan.
Think about your mission statement, your life verse, who you want to affect, and what you offer. Write your slogan – make it easy enough to remember and challenging enough your faith muscles are continually stretched as you strive to fulfill the promise of your words.
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